The Veterans Administration offers help to family caregivers through the Aid and Attendance program. This program helps cover the costs of caregiving for retired and disabled military veterans who need help with daily activities. The payments can go to the veteran, their spouse, or a family caregiver. This financial assistance can also be used for services in assisted living facilities, memory care, or nursing homes. It can be used together with other VA benefits, like pensions, to support veterans and their families.

Additionally, many states have similar programs through Medicaid that offer self-directed care options. These programs provide flexibility for caregivers and families to choose and manage the care their loved ones need, ensuring they receive appropriate support while staying in their preferred living arrangements.