Have you ever let your mind drift? One moment, you’re present, and the next, you’re lost in a memory—maybe a happy time with loved ones or a difficult moment from the past. These mental journeys can change our mood, influence our emotions, and sometimes make it hard to snap back to the present.

Now, imagine experiencing this while living with dementia. These mental drifts don’t just come and go—they take hold, transporting you to another time or place in your life. The reality around you fades, and the people near you may not match the world your mind has created.

As your caregiver, I will meet you wherever your mind takes you. I understand that your ability to reconnect with today’s reality isn’t as quick or easy as it once was. And that’s okay. I won’t force you back to the present or try to convince you that you’re wrong.  I will be patient – Giving you the space to experience the moment without frustration. I will be kind – Responding with warmth and understanding, no matter where your mind leads you. I will not argue – Because your reality, in that moment, is very real to you.

Dementia can be a confusing, isolating experience, but no one should have to go through it alone. By stepping into your world instead of forcing you into mine, I can offer comfort, connection, and dignity.If you’re a caregiver, friend, or loved one of someone with dementia, remember this: sometimes, the best way to help is simply to be present. Be their anchor, not by pulling them back, but by standing beside them wherever they are.